VIP Program

Is your marriage needing help?

Marriage and Divorce Lane

Most people want marriage or couples counseling when things go bad.  Counseling always works.  

But there is another option

Our VIP Intensive is not just regular counseling.  It is more.  

Learn how to be married and truly happy.  

Or decide if you need to separate or divorce.

You want help and you want it to be quick and thorough and permanent.  

Get expert, experienced, licensed, been-there-done-that, professional help.

Begin with an appointment of several straight hours to kick start fixing the problems, at the root, and then learn skills to perfect your relationship.  

Designed specifically for you, not a cookie cutter program.  

Quicker results


A true investment with quick returns and permanent change.  

Insurance can help with fees

We are one of very few professionals to offer intensives.  We know what we are doing.  And our clients say so: 
"We did the triage appointment and then engaged the VIP program.  No way regular weekly therapy could accomplish so much so quickly.  We will probably have a checkup in a year, but we are set on enjoying our beautiful marriage forever.  And it wasn't easy getting here, but I am so relieved and glad we did."  Charles P.

Man carrying smiling woman

No question about it.   

Especially if you are wanting help with any of these things:  

      - infidelity,

      - priorities,

      - conflict resolution,

      - finances.

"I did not think we could save our marriage of 20 years.  I didn't think I could ever forgive him.  This intensive program is unbelievable.  We not only saved our marriage but now have a plan to make it all permanent.  We are in love.  We now actually enjoy a true connection and we believe in us as a team.  And we know how to prevent future problems and how to solve anything that might come up."  Janet N.  

This is all done by telephone, or on our Hipaa-approved video conference platform, or even face to face appointments. 

VIP Intensive  

Learn how to be married and truly happy or decide to leave.  It all begins by scheduling your telephone consult.  Without paying a cent. 


You want help with your marriage.  You want your help to be quick and thorough and permanent.  The VIP Intensive is exactly what you are looking for.  And it is exactly what you are looking for if you want help quickly and permanently. 

If you want expert, experienced, licensed professional help, 

Text "vip" 719-647-9930 for more information!


  •  TRUST
  •  GROWTH  

Why some might not want the VIP Intensive?  The fee or  the lack of a guarantee might hold you back.

The VIP is an investment.  

It costs 5k to start a divorce.  Do it yourself for a few hundred but divorce is adversarial and you will probably lose at least half of everything including time with your kids and all your money and assets.

What is the guarantee of anything!  

Will it be better if you leave or divorce?  Will it be better if you get the VIP?  Yip, because then you will know you tried everything.  Even if it ends, at least you know you tried everything and will never have to feel the guilt of not trying harder 1 more time.

Forget all the "sharing feelings".  Forget all the "reflecting".  While these things are very important and very basic, what people want is to be understood.   And to get it done fast.  Who has time to dilly dally.  Nobody!   

Let's get things better at your home.  

Quickly, simply, and forever.


We believe in skills, space, and prioritizing.  

Are you wanting answers like How do you solve conflicts?  How do you work through the delicate issues?  How do you get heard?  How can you equalize the power?  How do you get on top of the addictions (or drinking)? 

Why people call us for help

  • How to settle conflicts
  • How to work through the delicate issues
  • How to get heard
  • How to equalize the power

Answer these questions:


Are you in a good marriage but not exactly happy with your spouse?

Are you generally happy, but not completely satisfied with how things are at home? 

Do you and your spouse fight too much?

Does your spouse need to make changes but you are not sure how to make it happen?

Is your communication lacking?

Are the household chores not divided up unfairly?

Do you struggle with finances?

Do you 2 not agree on parenting the kids?

Have you tried to fix things, it works for a while, but it just doesn't stick?

Are you ready to leave, but want to try one more time?

Do you have problems but you don't want to divorce?

Would you like a separation, but are not sure?

Is your intimacy and affection not where you would like?

Is there infidelity?

Is there a trust issue?

Are you tired of all the negativity and complaining and fighting?

Do the in-laws cause problems?

Do you want to: 

African American couple arguingBe happily married

Build trust

Fill it with passion

Communicate effectively

Resolve conflicts with the greatest of ease

Be best friends


Sometimes you just can't make a decision to stay or go.  The least you should do is try one more time to make it work. Then, if you decide to leave/divorce, you can at least say you tried everything.  

When you look for a marriage counselor, you find a lot of "professionals" offering their services.  Here's why you should contact us asap:  our program is a result of research of historical and current data and ideas, we have helped countless marriages, we have the professional training and personal experience.  Sometimes, when your marriage is in trouble,  the only option is separation/divorce. Even then, trying one more time - with us - can prevent guilt for not trying everything before you begin a divorce.

Learn about: 

  • 3-2-1’s

  • Sending and Reflecting

  • 5 Minute Game

  • Touch-and-go

  • 4 Thresholds of Marriage

  • How Personal Baggage Can Be A Benefit 

There is nothing more precious than marriage. It is sanctuary from the stress of the world.  Or at least it could/should be. Is yours? Would you like to have the Ideal Marriage? Dream it. Build it. Love it!  

Stop the current crisis, resolve conflicts, communicate effectively, love totally, build trust, live the dream.  

Marriage Gone Bad? 

Marriage and Divorce Lane

  • Do you want to leave, but you are trapped?
  • Does your spouse refuse to change or even listen?
  • Do you dread going home?
  • Has trust disappeared?
  • Are you afraid the kids will never forgive you?
  • Will your parents disapprove if you leave?
  • Are you financially stuck?
  • Does your church speak against what you want?
  • Are you afraid of your significant other?
  • Do you fear losing your friends?
  • Do you want to avoid hurting your significant other?
  • Do you have no place to go?
  • Would you lose too much financial security if you left?
  • Do you want to try to make it work but aren't sure how?

Let's face it.  Marriages take work - and sometimes the work is just not worth it anymore.  

Should you divorce or separate?  No, at least not until you tried everything, first.

Are you looking for help? 

Text "vip"  719-647-9930 for more information!

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